I regularly show and tell those important to me that I love them I have a clear vision of where I am going in my life I communicate openly and honestly with my partner I pay my bills on time I take holidays each year I am happy with my current weight and body tone I feel generally well I have a rewarding life outside of work I manage my money and financial affairs and records well I have been on a date in the last 3 months I have hobbies that I enjoy I confidently say no to people when I need to My wardrobe is a clear expression of who I am I love being in the clothes I wear I like the people that I work with My partner and I have mutual respect and are equals I have something to look forward to each week I have tried something new in the last 3 months I do not stress about money in my life I have a balanced diet and eat plenty of fresh foods My partner and I have fun together My home is generally clean and tidy My work does not cause me undue stress I am clear about my ideal partner I have an enjoyable relationship with my family My life feels in good balance to me I celebrate my successes I have clear career/business goals I have spring cleaned my home and possessions within the last 2 years I am happy and relaxed in my home I am doing what I love I am happy with my relationship status I am satisfied with the level of contact I have with my family I know where my money goes I surround myself with the things I love I am happy with my relationship status I laugh daily I love and make the most of the time I spend with my friends I do not smoke, take drugs or drink alcohol excessively I save at least 10% of my income I work at keeping the passion alive in my relationship I do not let paperwork pile up, I respond to my emails and calls within 48 hours I am happy with the amount of sleep I get There is no-one that I dread running into I am confident meeting new people I am free from past resentments or blame in the area of intimate relationships